Using Intuition on Dating Sites and in Love

There are many women and men on internet dating sites, including myself and I have learnt some very valuable lessons from interacting with people in this way. And by using my intution I have managed to uncover at least 12 scammers so far. If you are on dating sites and are not sure who you can trust and who you can't, let me share with you what I have learnt.

My experience is from searching through male profiles, but I believe there are just as many women scammers out there. If they type to you saying, they have been searching for the right person and you are the one they have found, like it is instant, be warned. There can be such a thing as an instant connection and a pull to that person, but instant love? I highly doubt it. If you have been chatting for a while and they ask you to go to Viber or Gmail or move to some other form of communication, that also signals alarm bells. About 95% of the scamming men that I have come across will have a story of being divorced or widowed with one daughter, always aged around 12. They will say they live in Australia but are currently overseas on business. Usually they are a civil engineer or away buying products for their own business. Use your gut feeling, if the story doesn't feel right, then it isn't. If they seem too good to be true, they probably are.

And don't be afraid to ask as many questions as you can. Too many people will believe what others are telling them. It is so important to use your gut feelings when communicating this way.

Some people are so desperate to feel love, they will rush into a relationship, with their eyes closed. They get swept up in a whirlwind of being given attention that they crave. Needing attention from someone else is only feeding your ego. So many people fall into a trap that they need someone else to make them happy. Happiness comes from loving who you are and loving the life you have created. When you meet someone who does make your heart flutter or you feel a connection with their energy, then they compliment your happiness, not create it.

Other problems that occur within relationships, is when one partner tries to change the other partner to fit into the world they are creating. People will create this ideal relationship in their mind and expect the other person to fit into that creation, but if the other person has a totally different view on what they want the relationship to be like, conflict arises.

When you truly love someone, you accept them as they are. They will still do things that bug you, but that's who they are and that is the person you fell in love with in the first place.

If you are starting out in a new relationship, take things slowly, really get to know one another. And most importantly, always speak the truth. And don't have high expectations as you are setting yourself up for a fall. Just take each day as it comes, if you are enjoying each others company that is great. It will naturally fall into place if it is meant to be. Trying too hard to force things to happen will be a waste of your time.

One great thing about dating a lot of different people, is you learn what you really do want from a relationship and what you really don't want. Good luck on your search for Love.