Can you see or feel spirits around you?

When spirits come into my home, I see them like a fast moving figure, sometimes they appear like a dark shadow or they come as a field of light. They move very fast, so I need to slow my mind and breathing right down to be able to get a clearer vision of who they are. I can usually tell their height or age and that comes from a 'sense' I get. I can see what they are wearing or how they smell. They will usually show me something significant about themselves so I can tell what they were like when living. Look at someone who is near you right now, someone living and see if you can describe them. Is there anything that really stands out with that person? Like do they have large eyes? Or a cheeky smile? Do they have a mole on their face or bushy eyebrows? If they don't have anything distinguishing on their face, is it something about their personality that stands out? Or do they use a certain phrase a lot? This is what I have to try and get from the spirit form so I can be sure of who I have with me.

A lot of the times, they won't give me a name but will give me other details to distinguish who they are. Other spirits will come in with a name straight up. I also find that if someone was quite reserved when they were living, they will appear that way to me when they have passed over. Quite a lot of spirits will stand in the background and observe me before they are willing to come forward and trust me, just as they would have been in real life. Other's are very used to using the energy and will come forward very clearly.

Sometimes a client will ask for a certain message from a particular relation and I will concentrate on them and I get nothing, it's like they can't feel my energy vibration to contact them, but someone else will come through. Other times the spirit is in my house 3 days before the client has found me to book a reading. I once had a male spirit here for a couple of days and as it got nearer to his daughter coming for a reading, he was getting more and more excited. When she arrived at my door to have her reading, I could see her fathers spirit jumping up and down with excitement that she was here. I do feel he had been trying to get her attention for ages, but she hadn't noticed him, by me being the medium he could finally get her to listen.

I also remember once driving past a cemetary and I could see a man kneeling at a gravestone, I could also see the outline of a lady spirit standing behind him with her hand on his shoulder, I wanted to stop the car and run over there and tell him, she is right next to you, I hope you can feel her, but I didn't, probably for fear of the man thinking I was a lunatic.

In my house, I know they are here because I see them, my children see them. My children describe it as catching a shadow out of the corner of the eye. There are also smells that randomly show up like aftershave or tobacco, or food smells. Sometimes lights will flicker or electrical equipment will not work. There will be noises like a tapping sound, or the fridge door will open but no one goes to the fridge. They will try many ways to get our attention. When you know they are there, acknowledge them. I always say "Thank you for coming here to help us, can I help you with anything". I speak with them like if a real person was standing in front of me and I never have any problems with them doing anything in my house I don't wish to happen.

When people feel fear, they are putting out a lot more energy than when they are calm. If you have a negative spirit around you, they will feed off of your fear and use that energy to create chaos which gives them more attention. If you feel fearful of an energy or spirit in your home, then tell them to leave and you will not tolerate them in your home. You wouldn't let a real nasty person in your home to disrupt things, so why should you allow a negative spirit to do the same?

I also love when I have spirit animals come to visit. I can be standing there and all of a sudden feel the spirit of a dog lean against my leg or the spirit of a cat brush against me. They give off such beautiful energy, just sit in the peace and feel it. I remember seeing a lady sitting in my lounge once and I said, do you know you have a pet magpie sitting on your shoulder and she said, Oh I used to have a pet magpie, I'm so glad he is still with me.

So remember to always thank your spirit friends for coming to visit you, they will continue to come back when you acknowledge them. If you ignore them, they will probably give up trying to get your attention and leave and then you miss the valuable messages they are energetically sending to your thoughts.